Conversation Behavior

Speaking English is not only about using proper grammar. To use English effectively, you need to understand the culture in which it is spoken. Here are some important tips to remember when speaking English in the United States.

Addressing People

·         Use last names with people you do not know: Address people using their title (Mr, Ms, Dr) and their last names.

·         Always use "Ms" when addressing women: It is important to use "Ms" when addressing a woman. Only use "Mrs" when the woman has asked you to do so!

·         Many Americans prefer first names: Americans often prefer using first names, even when dealing with people in very different positions. Americans will generally say, "Call me Tom." and then expect you to remain on a first name basis.

·         Americans prefer informal: In general, Americans prefer informal greetings and using first names or nicknames when speaking with colleagues and acquaintances.

Public Behavior

·         Always shake hands: Americans shake hands when greeting each other. This is true for both men and women. Other forms of greeting such as kissing on the cheeks, etc., are generally not appreciated.

·         Look your partner in the eye: Americans look each other in the eyes when they are speaking as a way of showing that they are sincere.

·         Don't hold hands: Same sex friends do not usually hold hands or put their arms around each other in public in the United States.

·         Smoking is Out!!: Smoking, even in public places, is strongly disapproved of by most Americans in the modern United States.

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